Hey, welcome to my blog, I’m happy to have you. First of all my icon is a picrew you can find here. Secondly, do not take anything you see here too seriously. I’m just a dumb bitch that is easily annoyed. Idk why you care so much what I think but idk why I care so much about what you think too.
When I get a very strong special interest I organize it into a side blog so if you’re wondering why you don’t see XYZ on here check out my side blogs.
All things Buckynat- @buckynatcritical
F/f ships (including all things she ra, vicait, owl house, and others)- @girlsships
All things miraculous ladybug– @spottedbuginette
All things magical girls– @tsukinikawatte
All things Taylor Swift– @swifterthancivility
All my Harry Potter rants– @criticalowlry
All Things Star Wars – @sleeveblaster
My problematic disney blog – @mousemonopoly
I am so tired of the last name debate of like “what last name do kids take”? Just give daughters their mom’s last name, sons get the father’s last name. If the kid is trans they’ll probably change their name anyway so let them pick when they do.
Hyphenated names are bad. Can you imagine if everyone hyphenates from now on. What do we do in the next generation? Like when Mary Smith-Jones marries John Miller-Baker does their kid become Susie Smith-Jones-Miller-Baker? No. Just let girls keep the maternal last name and Boys take the paternal last name. And for queer families just pick a gender to pass your name on to.
I am obsessed with romance isekai on webtoon. I mean I’m not really but if you want a fantasy romance with nice art these days that’s what you get. Anyway. I feel like at this point literally every character in an isekai should be like “well fuck i wound up in a romance novel” like there should be an epidemic of people disappearing and ending up in romance novels in their origin world. I want to see people get isekaied into an isekai novel. I want every character to be isekai characters. Let’s inception this.
peacozy:
I do not respect the grind. Go to bed
do-you-have-a-flag:
hoseph-christiansen:
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ultrafacts:
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okay but this is a power move above any other
It gets even better, because he was doing all of this on a pitch black night. This dude swam towards a lure, slapped at it with his glove, and when it got caught; he let himself float and tugged on the line so the fisherman thought he had hooked a 100+ pound salmon. Once he was finally up to the shore, he turned a flashlight on in the guy’s face and walked out of the water, saying “good morning, gentlemen. State fish and game warden, you’re under arrest.“
At this point, the guy who had reeled him in had literally fallen over in shock, and the other people with him were scared shitless. The warden whipped some citations out of a plastic bag in his wetsuit, made the trespassers sign them, asked if they had any questions, and then gathered all of their fishing gear. And he just. Walked back into the river. And quietly swam away, without another word.
This man is a legend.
warden coming out of his river to shame fishermankind
I feel like there’s an aspect of polyamory that doesn’t get discussed and that is what it’s like to be dating in a world where a huge percentage of the dating pool already has a primary partner. Like I get that polyamory can be great for an established relationship but there’s this really frustrating phenomenon I’ve experienced as a lesbian of half the women on dating apps (the only way to find a partner in my area as we have almost no queer spaces) being bisexual women attached to men who want to explore new facets of their sexuality. That was a huge portion of my dates and people I connected with. And my experience with poly folks has by and large been people who see any potential partners outside their primary partners as a means to an end–mostly sexual. I understand that some people are down for that, but it’s not the majority. How many times have you seen “no hookups” on someone’s profile? People by and large are looking for a real relationship, not to be the filler in a separate relationship to be disgarded as soon as their usefulness is over.
I’m not against polyamory, I’m really not, but I do think there are aspects of it becoming more mainstream that kind of suck. I feel like when monogamy is the norm there is this effort to genuinely get to know a person because you’re stuck with just them. And if you choose to stay in the relationship you become better at communicating because you want to invest in that relationship. With polyamory there’s this commodification, like people just want you to check a box for them and if you don’t check all their boxes they can just find another person. There’s not an interest in accepting a partner completely, and there’s not a real investment in the relationship. And I just don’t think you can build real connections that way. I know there are exceptions and people who do it well, but this has been my experiences as a lesbian dating women.
One of the things that drives me crazy about neurodivergent content is the way it really justifies like a lack of consideration. We are social animals. You need to factor in the experiences of the other humans around you when making a decision. Like before you speak make a guess at how the other person will feel. When completing a task for someone think about what they wanted. And if you don’t know, it’s probably because you haven’t been paying attention to them.
This is not a natural skill. We all learn it at some point. It’s not even empathy or sympathy it is just thinking about other people when you do shit. Because by and large everyone is doing that for you. Everyone else is considering you when their actions or words are going to interact with you. Everyone else is trying to get to know you to be able to make these considerations. If you just opt out of that social contract, you’re benefitting without working. So yeah, people will be frustrated and annoyed with you.
And honestly, I don’t think this is about neurodivergence it’s just something people use their neurodivergence to justify.
One thing I cannot handle as a teacher is the breakfast of takis and monster. Like we give you free breakfast please at least take a fruit. Your brain needs vitamins.
I am not loving the fashion trend of people wearing full-body lycra suits especially the ones that are beige. Like ma'am you look like you’re cosplaying a condom. I know kim Kardashian wears that bs but she’s more plastic than human and photoshops all your pictures. I genuinely don’t care what your body looks like under your clothes but you don’t need to display it. It just always looks so awkward and unflattering because it’s not like tailored. You look like goob from meet the robinsons. Break up the silhouette.
